\u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i: Em h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef:” ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n”<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef ” ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n”<\/h2>\n

T\u1eeb bao \u0111\u1eddi nay, \u00f4ng cha ta lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1 cao v\u00e0 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. Bao gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau b\u1eb1ng l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a, xem l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u00e9 th\u01a1, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ph\u1ea3i n\u1eb1m l\u00f2ng c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef ” Ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n”. Tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ea5y ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m v\u0103n hi\u1ebfn, c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef \u1ea5y v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef b\u1eb1ng ch\u1eef H\u00e1n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi r\u0103n d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed. “L\u1ec5” \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nho gi\u00e1o quy \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1ec5 gi\u00e1o, \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd phong ki\u1ebfn, kh\u00e9p con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc k\u1ec9 c\u01b0\u01a1ng( trai th\u00ec “Tam c\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u0169 th\u01b0\u1eddng”, g\u00e1i th\u00ec” Tam t\u00f2ng t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9c”). Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1ec5 gi\u00e1o n\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc “v\u0103n”. “H\u1ecdc V\u0103n” theo ngh\u0129a x\u01b0a c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi trong th\u00e1nh hi\u1ec1n. L\u1eddi d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a Kh\u1ed5ng t\u1eed khuy\u00ean r\u0103n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i c\u1ed1t c\u00e1ch, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n ta: M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng quan t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn v\u0103n h\u00f3a, ch\u1eef ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n

“Ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n”,th\u1eadt v\u1eady, h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u00e9 th\u01a1, ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129 qua l\u1eddi ru c\u1ee7a b\u00e0, c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ca dao, c\u00e2u h\u00e1t trong d\u00e2n gian \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft bao truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.L\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi “c\u1ea3m \u01a1n”, “xin l\u1ed7i”,” d\u1ea1 th\u01b0a” v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i…ho\u1eb7c \u0111i ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0a, v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u00ecnh…Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd \u1ea5y h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb l\u00fac ch\u01b0a b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.\u0110\u1ebfn khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc, b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u1ed5ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ta s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ngay kh\u1ea9u hi\u1ec7u” Ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n”.Song song v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp thu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u0103n h\u00f3a, ta v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u1ec5, ngh\u0129a, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8,k\u00ednh y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u1edf m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o th\u00ec l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n

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Ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5 h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n<\/em><\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con \u1edf nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu ng\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh ngoan v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn sau n\u00e0y ra x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n t\u1ed1t. Ta c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ebf b\u00e0o c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u1ebfu gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 c\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp th\u00ec s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u0103n minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1” ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n” l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169, c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e3i m\u00e3i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian. B\u1edfi h\u1ecdc ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u0103n h\u00f3a ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o, h\u1ecdc khi tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecdc khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng ” l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a” l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi sinh con ra, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9.B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: Ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5 h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1 cao vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m h\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u “C\u00f3 t\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e0i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f3”. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 cao t\u1eeb xa x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u00f3 \u0103n s\u00e2u v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef” ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5 h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc s\u00e2u s\u1eafc cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi h\u1ecdc b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c g\u00ec. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb u\u1ed5ng ph\u00ed. t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd, \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i: Em h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef:” ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n” B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef ” ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n” T\u1eeb… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4481,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[264],"tags":[],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4479"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4479"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4479\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4481"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4479"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4479"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4479"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}