Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh.<\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh\u201d. Anh\/ch\u1ecb th\u1ea5y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i l\u00e0m:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng, t\u1ed1t x\u1ea5u l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n. Trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00ec v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u. Ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: G\u1ea7n m\u1ef1c th\u00ec \u0111en, g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e8n th\u00ec s\u00e1ng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n d\u0129 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i:Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh\u201d. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh t\u1ec9nh ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f2ng ng\u1eeba th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi.
\nTam t\u1ef1 kinh c\u00f3 c\u00e2u” Nh\u00e2n chi s\u01a1, t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n thi\u1ec7n”. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb khi sinh ra b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t v\u1ed1n d\u0129 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c ch\u1eedi b\u1eady k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1 h\u1ecdc. ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p ba r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 b\u1eady b\u1ea1, v\u1eady m\u00e0 khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00f3 th\u00f3 quen n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c, ch\u1eedi b\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2i L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 theo phong tr\u00e0o, cho vui nh\u01b0ng l\u00e2u d\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i b\u1eady, ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ed1t ra kh\u1ecfi mi\u1ec7ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, cho xung quanh. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ngay t\u1eeb khi sinh ra con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 mang s\u1eb5n nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u. Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh c\u1ee9ng c\u1ecfi, chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y \u00edt c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9. V\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u1eebng xem th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t \u1ea5y, b\u1edfi v\u00ec :\u201cNh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh\u201d
\n“Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng”, \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 v\u1eady,ban \u0111\u1ea7u ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01a1 \u01a1 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y v\u00ec ta ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eady, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 l\u00e2u l\u00e2u m\u00f3i \u0111i qua ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ngay ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0: n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c ch\u1eedi b\u1eady, v\u1ee9t r\u00e1c b\u1eeba b\u00e3i ” ban \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nhau, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 ” g\u1ea7n m\u1ef1c th\u00ec \u0111en”, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 th\u00ec r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng du nh\u1ea1p n\u00f3.V\u00ec v\u1eady, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf r\u00f5 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng, tr\u00e1nh xa c\u00e1c th\u00f3i h\u01b0 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf hay l\u1edbn.
\n“Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn, th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0”, v\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n? V\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ta v\u1eabn \u0111ang th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ta kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ta tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ta chung s\u1ed1ng, sinh ho\u1ea1t. Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u len l\u1ecfi v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t d\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta. Nhi\u1ec1u khi m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc sinh du nh\u1eadp th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u1ecf ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i tr\u1ed9i hay mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00f4i. Hi\u1ec7n nay ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n nam h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p 3 l\u1ea1i h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u00fat, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00fat cho b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng b\u00e8.
\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh.Khi th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, hay ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb, \u0111\u00f4i khi ta b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3.M\u1ed9t khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u00ean l\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5… th\u00ec r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m. Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb x\u1ea3o quy\u1ec7t, ranh ma \u0111\u1ed9i l\u1ed1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u00fd \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a \u00e1c qu\u1ec9, c\u1ee7a b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc sinh ngoan ngo\u00e3n, b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n nam sa v\u00e0o con n\u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nghi\u1ec7n game, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n qu\u00ean \u0111i nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8, sau d\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u- \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u1ea5y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb sai khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp n\u00e0y v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n chi ti\u00eau.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0, t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u ngay t\u1eeb h\u00f4m nay b\u1edfi, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng gh\u00ea g\u1edbm. Do \u0111\u00f3, ngay t\u1eeb ban \u0111\u1ea7u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay coi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 xa l\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m quen, l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n r\u1ed3i th\u00e0nh ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n h\u00e0nh vi, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta.Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t lu\u00f4n di\u1ec5n ra h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c: N\u00f3i t\u1ee5c, ch\u1eedi b\u1eady. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 theo phong tr\u00e0o, cho vui nh\u01b0ng l\u00e2u d\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i b\u1eady, ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ed1t ra kh\u1ecfi mi\u1ec7ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, cho xung quanh. Ch\u1eafc h\u1eafn ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee1 ng\u00e0ng khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1n net g\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ea3o. Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee9 ng\u1ee1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng quen bi\u1ebft \u1ea5y d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n s\u1ed1ng chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ecnh ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb trong ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

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Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh<\/em><\/h3>\n

L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0103n minh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec7n nay c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u.Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n nay,m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u th\u00ec s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh, d\u1ec5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ta v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai, s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa- ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n chung nh\u00e0. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng, th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen, l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh, l\u1ea7n ki\u1ec3m tra \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c b\u00e0i, h\u00e9 v\u1edf nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n hai r\u1ed3i l\u1ea7n ba v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen. Th\u00f3i quen \u1ea5y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc. V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng , c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u tha h\u00f3a.<\/p>\n

Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 v\u0103n h\u00f3a, thi\u1ebfu v\u0103n minh th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1.Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1ecf nhen, \u00edch k\u1ef7, l\u00e0m cho ta lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i tranh gi\u00e0nh, ganh \u0111ua, t\u00ednh to\u00e1n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 thanh th\u1ea3n. Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i v\u00f4 t\u01b0 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi ta. V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u00ec th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u, ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c, ta s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c. Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 con dao ph\u1ea3n ch\u1ee7, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111au b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 trong s\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m, n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n.<\/p>\n

X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng v\u0103n minh th\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i h\u01b0, t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u, nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i lo ng\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec7n nay. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i : “Th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i xung quanh ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ban \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, sau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u1edf chung nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh…. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4627,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[264],"tags":[],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4625"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4625"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4625\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4627"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4625"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4625"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4625"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}