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Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i: H\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i l\u00e0m:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ca dao t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho t\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ca dao, t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 cho th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 sau. Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u1ea5y d\u1ea1y cho ta nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 \u00fd ch\u00ed, ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c, v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef : Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 khi ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ec1 ra c\u00f2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef” Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng” c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho ta h\u01a1i m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00ec l\u00e0m sao vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecbch \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 ra l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9( t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n) c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.
\nNh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i . H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc-kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i sinh ra th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eefng ch\u00ed b\u1ec1n l\u00f2ng, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

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Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef “Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”.<\/em><\/h3>\n

Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 tay tr\u1eafng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. T\u1ea0i sao l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Sau khi v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3.\u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng va v\u1ea5p , ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Sau v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, ta \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. SAu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9 kho t\u00e0ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n.Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1eady, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm t\u00f2i, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi.NH\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn ni\u1ec1m ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u1ecd t\u00ecm t\u00f2i, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. NH\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc Edixon l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t minh ch\u1ee9ng cho vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra chi\u1ebfc b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e8n m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y nay ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u1eafp s\u00e1ng, Edixon \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean sau h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng minh ch\u1ee9ng cho c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”.<\/p>\n

“Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”.Th\u1eadt v\u1eady! Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00f4ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1edbn ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m sai d\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi cho ra \u0111\u1eddi nh\u1eefng con ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1eaft, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 ti\u1ec7n c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7y x\u01b0\u1edbc \u1edf b\u00e0n tay v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng con ti\u1ec7n c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u00f9 m\u00e9o m\u00f3, sai k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc v\u0129 nh\u00e2n tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng v\u1eady. A. N\u00f4-ben t\u1eebng l\u00e0m n\u1ed5 ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ebf t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lo\u1ea1i thu\u1ed1c n\u1ed5 m\u00e0 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111ang c\u00f3. Lu-I Patx-t\u01a1 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00ecm ra lo\u1ea1i v\u1eafc xin ph\u00f2ng ch\u1ed1ng b\u1ec7nh d\u1ea1i. Hay nh\u01b0 A. Anh-xtanh, b\u1ed9 \u00f3c v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 XX, th\u1edf nh\u1ecf \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 ch\u1eadm ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n do th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp qu\u00e1 t\u1ec7. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng hay nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc v\u0129 nh\u00e2n, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 sau nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. Nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd b\u00e1u, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 tri th\u1ee9c cho nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh sau gi\u00fap ta th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1c nhau \u1edf ch\u1ed7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 mu\u00f4n v\u00e0n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed th\u00ec d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0o th\u1ea3i v\u00e0 ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ng\u00e3 l\u00f2ng th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft \u00fd ch\u00ed, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng, l\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0m b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng, kinh nghi\u1ec7m d\u00e0y d\u1eb7n h\u01a1n, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 c\u00e2u ” Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”. hay ” ch\u1edb th\u1ea5y s\u00f3ng c\u1ea3 m\u00e0 ng\u00e3 tay ch\u00e8o” d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef:”Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta. Tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eadp nghi\u1ec7p, \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed, b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc l\u00f2ng th\u00ec m\u1edbi bi\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ta \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef “th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc tham kh\u1ea3o v\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1ed1t nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0i v\u0103n m\u1eabu s\u1ed1 2:\u00a0\u00a0gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong><\/h3>\n

C\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng hay v\u00e0 r\u0103n d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef n\u00e0y th\u00ec h\u00e3y tham kh\u1ea3o b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng gian kh\u1ed5, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u1ed5 luy\u1ec7n, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c mi\u1ec7t m\u00e0i. Trog qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gian kh\u1ed5 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ecba, nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u1ea5y m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf cha \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i “th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 khi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng su\u00f4n s\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. C\u00f2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 ta mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ebft. M\u1eb9 sinh ra con, nh\u1edd c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 con. T\u1eeb \u00fd ngh\u0129a tr\u00ean \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ta mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

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T\u1ea1i sao cha \u00f4ng ta l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. M\u1edbi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u ta th\u1ea5y c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean c\u00f3 v\u1ebb tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 hai chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 g\u00ec v\u1edbi nhau c\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng sau khi suy ng\u1eabm ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 v\u00f4 l\u00fd ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. B\u1edfi v\u00ec sau nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ta s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng sai s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ta, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 r\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd b\u00e1u gi\u00fap ta tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed th\u00ec c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n ch\u00ed th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00fang. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t \u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u00fd ch\u00ed, t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, m\u1ea5y ai trong ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng sai ph\u1ea1m v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf trong nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ch\u1eadp ch\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i, ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 sao? Trong nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n \u1ea5y n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc Loius Pasture l\u00fac c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hoc sinh trung b\u00ecnh, \u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong sinh trung b\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt b\u1ea1i th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o h\u1ebft m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng lo l\u1eafng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 ng\u00e3 xe v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ea1p xe th\u00ec c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111i xe. B\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u00e3i m\u00e3i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft b\u01a1i.Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng tr\u1ea3i qua \u0111\u1ea7y hoa h\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u00e2u c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea1. M\u00e0 n\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y cay \u0111\u1eafng v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t th\u00ec nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ta kh\u00f4ng \u00edt nh\u1eefng m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ee3i \u00edch.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ch\u00fa \u00fd ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho ra nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7m th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5y v\u00ec ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta x\u1eed tr\u00ed nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nguy nan gian kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t . Ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 tin l\u1ea1c quan \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 bi quan m\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u1ea1c quan b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u00e3y d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi d\u00e0nh t\u1eb7ng cho ta, h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng ni\u1ec1m tin m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn.
\nL\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn g\u1eb7p r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eadt b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m, b\u1ecb th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta… Nh\u00fang ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng n\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9, kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ta ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u00e0 c\u00f2n trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khi ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 g\u00ec n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0i v\u0103n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hi v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u h\u1eefu \u00edch d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i: H\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef: Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng B\u00e0i l\u00e0m: Ca… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4670,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[415,423,264,407],"tags":[403],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4669"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4669"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4669\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4669"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4669"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/onthitot.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4669"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}