\u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i: \u00dd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u00e0n \u00fd Ngh\u1ecb lu\u1eadn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u1eabn d\u1eaft v\u00e0o ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb l\u00fac sinh ra cho \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi, d\u00f9 \u00edt d\u00f9 nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u00ecnh. Ta xem vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, \u201cb\u1ea1n\u201d th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec?, \u201ct\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh\u201d l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? V\u00e0 trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n xem l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t: Kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m g\u1eafn b\u00f3 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, s\u1edf th\u00edch hay v\u1ec1 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1\u2026<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc. B\u1edfi t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n g\u1eafn b\u00f3, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau. \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, s\u1ebb chia v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ecdi ni\u1ec1m vui trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

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Hai: Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/p>\n

Vai tr\u00f2, \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/strong><\/p>\n

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• T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a cho b\u1ea1n, c\u1ed5 v\u0169 b\u1ea1n, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/li>\n
• T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u00f4i th\u00fac b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u hay, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb9p, lu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  L\u1eaby d\u1eabn ch\u00fang v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh:<\/strong>\u00a0t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u1eefa L\u01b0u B\u00ecnh v\u00e0 D\u01b0\u01a1ng L\u1ec5,\u00a0 gi\u1eefa B\u00e1 Nha v\u00e0 T\u1eed K\u1ef3\u2026<\/p>\n

  Nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  • T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh theo c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea5t.<\/li>\n
  • Trong t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i hai ch\u1ee9 \u201cni\u1ec1m tin\u201d<\/li>\n
  • \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ecdi ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n<\/li>\n
  • C\u1ea7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 bao che nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Ba: t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1eb9p<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    • L\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n mang theo s\u1ef1 toan t\u00ednh, l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng, d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1, gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o<\/li>\n
    • Th\u1ef1c tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1eb9p: Hi\u1ec7n nay x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1edf n\u00ean bon chen, x\u00f4 b\u1ed3. Ch\u1ea1y theo \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n, l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00ean l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7, h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n
    • T\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p: d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng d\u1eabn d\u1eaft con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u, m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e9p m\u00ecnh\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      K\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/strong><\/p>\n

      <\/p>\n

      T\u00f3m g\u1ecdn l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf tr\u00ean, m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec5 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0o chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u suy ng\u1eabm.<\/p>\n

      C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00edch th\u00eam m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u th\u01a1 ho\u1eb7c th\u00e0nh ng\u1eef v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n<\/p>\n

      V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0:\u00a0 \u201cKhen ng\u1ee3i t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

      Ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

      Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

      Y\u00eau m\u1ebfn t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau m\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n.\u201d<\/p>\n

      (Tr\u00edch: William ArthurWard)<\/p>\n

      <\/p>\n

      B\u00e0i v\u0103n m\u1eabu\u00a0Ngh\u1ecb lu\u1eadn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00ed th\u00fa c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, gi\u00e0u ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u00fap cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a, \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 Democrite \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cAi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng.\u201d<\/p>\n

      \u00d4ng cha ta c\u00f3 c\u00e2u<\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00e2n
      \nKh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n, \u00e2n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nhau<\/p>\n

      Con ngu\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cao \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 trong s\u00e1ng nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Thomas Hughs t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cPh\u01b0\u1edbc thay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00e0i k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00fd nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf.\u201d Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

      Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb khi sinh ra \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng xa v\u1eddi hay kh\u00f3 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m hay ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh\u2026 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhau c\u00f9ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tri k\u1ec9, b\u1ea1n n\u1ed1i kh\u1ed1, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1ee9a, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng minh hay b\u1ea1n chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng s\u1edf th\u00edch, c\u00f9ng l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng, quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho ta m\u1ed9t b\u1edd vai m\u1ed7i khi ta kh\u00f3c, cho ta m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a khi ta r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, cho ta m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng khi ta l\u1ea1c b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u0103m t\u1ed1i, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n b\u00ean ta d\u00f9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed5i thay, khi ta g\u1eb7p ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

      Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n \u1edf b\u00ean ta nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ede nh\u00e0 th\u00ec nh\u1edd ba m\u1eb9, ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1edd b\u1ea1n b\u00e8\u201d. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, n\u1ebfu ai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i l\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00f3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n A.Manzoni \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eedi g\u1eafm t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 th\u1ea7m k\u00edn. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1edfi l\u1ebd n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

      Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec1u hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0o cung t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a L\u01b0u B\u00ecnh v\u00e0 D\u01b0\u01a1ng L\u1ec5 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a. Khi D\u01b0\u01a1ng L\u1ec5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u01b0 sinh ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5, L\u01b0u B\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ea bai m\u00e0 c\u00f2n k\u1ebft giao b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho D\u01b0\u01a1ng L\u1ec5 \u0103n h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u1ebfn khi D\u01b0\u01a1ng L\u1ec5 c\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh danh to\u1ea1i, L\u01b0u B\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb \u0103n m\u00e0y r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8 b\u00ea tha. Nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn ngh\u0129a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 n\u0103m x\u01b0a, D\u01b0\u01a1ng L\u1ec5 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1edd v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh gi\u00fap nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1c th\u00fac vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a L\u01b0u B\u00ecnh. Sau \u0111\u00f3, L\u01b0u B\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea1t l\u00e0m quan. Hay t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a hai nh\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb l\u1edbn l\u00e0 C\u00e1c-m\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0102ng-ghen. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a hai \u00f4ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng chung m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch v\u00e0 l\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng. Trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, hai \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho nhau v\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng vui s\u01b0\u1edbng khi g\u1eb7p lai nhau. C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0102ng-ghen b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh, C\u00e1c-m\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u s\u00e1ch v\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh cho b\u1ea1n.. \u0110\u00f3 m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 cao qu\u00fd.<\/p>\n

      B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tinh b\u1ea1n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd v\u0129nh c\u1eedu c\u1ea3. B\u1edfi t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu \u0111i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.Vi\u00ean pha l\u00ea \u201ct\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n\u201d \u00f3ng \u00e1nh kia s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u00e1ng l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh n\u1eefa m\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng m\u1edd nh\u1ea1t, \u0111en t\u1ed1i.T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n d\u1ed1i l\u1eeba s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea9m, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho hai ch\u1eef \u201ct\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n\u201d kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u00e0 cao qu\u00fd n\u1eefa. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ta c\u0169ng b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh xa th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u xa n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

      T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00ed th\u00fa c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, gi\u00e0u ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n gi\u00fap cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a, \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 Democrite \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cAi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng.\u201d<\/p>\n

      B\u00e0i v\u0103n m\u1eabu s\u1ed1 2: Ngh\u1ecb lu\u1eadn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      \u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i: Anh\/ch\u1ecb h\u00e3y n\u00eau c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a em v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

      B\u00e0i m\u1eabu:\u00a0<\/strong>Ngh\u1ecb lu\u1eadn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

      Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 xoay quanh. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed7i quan h\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 tho\u00e1ng qua nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi ta, \u0111i theo ta trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

      Trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ebb chia, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 nhau gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p ph\u1ea3i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, trong s\u00e1ng, v\u00f4 t\u01b0\u00a0 v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1ee3 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebb chia, t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n d\u00e8 ch\u1eebng, c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4i, th\u1eadt t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n coi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd s\u1ebb chia bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u0111em nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ra l\u00e0m tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f9a. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng trong s\u00e1ng, c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch hay \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng l\u1eabn nhau. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

      \u0110\u1ec3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a nhau c\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. B\u1edfi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau. D\u1eabu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 n\u00e9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1ebd v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 vun \u0111\u1eafp, c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ebb chia, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t. Mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u, ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao che dung t\u00fang tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

      R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ta thi v\u1ecb h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Th\u1eadt\u00a0 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0a tay gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 hay khi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean l\u1eafng nghe. C\u0169ng th\u1eadt h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi c\u00f3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ta nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb. V\u00e0 th\u1eadt \u1ea5m \u00e1p khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ta \u0111\u1ec3 khi ta \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u, l\u00e0m g\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i quan t\u00e2m, nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf. N\u1ebfu t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo \u00e2u hay \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n hay s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n

      T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u00e0 cao qu\u00fd m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Coi tr\u1ecdng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1m hoa k\u1ebft tr\u00e1i v\u00e0 n\u1ea3y n\u1edf m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi thu\u1ed1c tinh th\u1ea7n gi\u00fap ta lu\u00f4n v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hay khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

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