Anh \/ch\u1ecb h\u00e3y tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta, gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng hai m\u1eb7t t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p r\u1ed3i anh ta c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 hai nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt A v\u00e0 B \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 hai nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt A v\u00e0 B c\u00f3 chung m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh: c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp. Tuy nhi\u00ean sau n\u00e0y anh A l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00ean phong trong c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c ph\u00f2ng ch\u1ed1ng t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh . C\u00f2n anh B l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra trong c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn anh l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ?\u201d. V\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0 \u201cC\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00ean t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec ? Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ta sinh ra, l\u1edbn l\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00f4i nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, ch\u1edf che cho ta kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb bao th\u1ebf h\u1ec7: \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng to l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tinh th\u1ea7n n\u00e0o thay th\u1ebf n\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c to l\u1edbn t\u1eeb truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. N\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng cho nhau. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u1edf che v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t cho con c\u00e1i th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u1edbn l\u00ean s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. V\u00ed nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 T\u1ed1 H\u1eefu sinh tr\u01b0\u1edfng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh Nho gi\u00e1o, sau n\u00e0y T\u1ed1 H\u1eefu tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 C\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng , nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. M\u1ea1nh T\u1eed ng\u01b0\u1eddi Trung Qu\u1ed1c tuy m\u1ea5t cha t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o, d\u1ea1y nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u hay l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i. Sau n\u00e0y M\u1ea1nh T\u1eed tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tri\u1ebft gia l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a Trung Hoa. Nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc sinh \u1edf n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n, nh\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee7 khoa c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i H\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n

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Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 Nguy\u1ec5n \u0110\u1ee9c Ngh\u0129a \u1edf H\u1ea3i Ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 l\u00e0 s\u1ef9 quan qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i, m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n anh ta l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed9c (V\u1ee5 \u00e1n x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m 2010 t\u1ea1i H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i). Nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 \u1ef7 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0103n ch\u01a1i l\u00eau l\u1ed5ng \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ngay khi c\u00f2n ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. Qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. V\u00ed nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt B trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 \u1edf tr\u00ean ho\u1eb7c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a th\u1eb1ng Ph\u00e1c trong truy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn \u201cChi\u1ebfc thuy\u1ec1n ngo\u00e0i xa\u201d c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n Minh Ch\u00e2u. Do s\u1ed1ng trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha lu\u00f4n b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh m\u1eb9 n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb m\u00e1u l\u1ea1nh ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. Ph\u00e1c d\u00f9ng th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 dao nh\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1i cha m\u00ecnh. \u0110a s\u1ed1 t\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 lao \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 do.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y: gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt A l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t. Tuy c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp nh\u01b0ng anh A v\u1eabn v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Qua c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng hai m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean. M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. V\u00e0 d\u00f9 trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i \u0111i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u n\u00e0o ng\u1ea3 theo chi\u1ec1u \u1ea5y. C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh , l\u00ean \u00e1n th\u00f3i b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00ec m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, v\u0103n h\u00f3a.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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